Positively managing conflict is a skill all of us should endeavor to develop and there is no better way to train than to first focus on ourselves. How we personally respond to those in disagreement with us speaks volumes on our spiritual maturity. For those of us who are married, this is especially apparent. Do we attempt to manipulate the conflict or are we able to mitigate disagreement to a positive result. Let's consider whether we lean toward manipulating or mitigating